Choosing the Right Man
Be Careful What You Wish For
We can be our own worst enemies. We’ve gained much knowledge along our journeys and although it is true knowledge is power it can also become a roadblock. Such was the case of this client who came into her QHHT session (Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique) wanting to know why she was always choosing the wrong men. Her history with men was full of people who were unfaithful, con artists, and a host of other undesirable characteristics.
“Why do you think you choose these men?”
“I don’t know! They all seemed so perfect at first, well, that’s not always true, there have been times when my gut is telling me they may not be so great, but I analyze and move on. I see the good qualities and I think of us in the future, I think of what he would be like with us as a couple.”
The beginning of every QHHT session is a “getting to know you” stage and as she talked, she went through all of the different men and how each relationship ended in disappointment. She was at the point of wondering if she should even be in a relationship.
“Are you ready to find out what is going on?”
“I am.”
The process of the induction is very relaxing and when she was in her Somnambulistic state of mind I asked her where she was.
“I am out on a prairie, lots of low grass, it’s a sunny day.”
She went on to describe a past life where she was a woman in her 20’s, she lived in a tribal community, she was not married, nor did she have children. It was a peaceful existence for the most part, however, the tribal elders were very concerned that she had not chosen a mate, and conversations were taking place for her arranged marriage.
“Are you happy with the idea of a mate being chosen for you?”
“No, not at all!”
“Why have you not chosen one for yourself?”
“I like my freedom; I don’t want to be tied down to a man and children.
As the life continued, she was expected to marry so indeed she did, she had a life with a husband and children.
From there she moved onto a second past life. This life was much like the first, there was an arranged marriage, only this time she was a young male in his late teens.
“I am thinking of ending my life?”
“Why, what has you so depressed?”
“I can’t meet their expectations; I am not like my brothers.”
“What are they expecting you to be?”
“Strong, athletic, I don’t like to do the things they like to do. I am not like them. I am a very bad thing; I don’t fit in.”
As we progressed this life, we came to find out the boy was gay and he couldn’t tell anyone. He too was forced to marry and he also had children. In both cases the freedom to choose wasn’t there.
The time had come for us to contact her Subconscious for answers. Each of us can tap into our subconscious, they are the perfect source for clarity as they have the records and knowledge of everything we have ever experienced in this live and any other life. In a QHHT session we tap in and direct questions.
“Why did you show the client her life as a tribal woman?”
“That time was a time of a slow life, she needs to slow down, she wants everything to happen so fast that she is forcing the process and becoming disappointed with the results. She also didn’t have the freedom of choice in that life, she is very free to choose in her current life, she needs to make better choices, choices with more thought and less over thinking.”
“Why did you show her the life of the teenage boy?”
“She thinks she is stuck now, she was very stuck in that life, very depressed but yet made the best of it. In this life she gets herself into depression and anxiety for no real reason. She needs to stop over analyzing and listen to her intuition and not the knowledge she has picked up along the way. It’s time for her to relax and live in her power.”
“Both lives had arranged marriages, why is that important for her to see today?”
“She is very free in this lifetime. She doesn’t need to find a mate; she can choose to be single and live without children. She is placing others’ expectations on herself in this life when she doesn’t have to. We wanted to remind her of how unfulfilling those past lives were, living her life for others.”
“Why does she keep choosing the wrong men.”
“She doesn’t really want a relationship, she wants her freedom, she is subconsciously choosing men that she knows will end in disaster. She thinks she is pleasing her family by showing she is trying; however, she really just wants to be single at this stage of her life. She finally has that power. When she is ready the right person will come, for now she needs to listen to her intuition and please herself.
An amazing revelation indeed. After the session we talked and she said, “I had no idea I was sabotaging my own life, wow, I don’t want a man, I want to travel and explore. This was fantastic!”
Brian Crawford
Level 2 QHHT Practitioner
Soulsync-healing.com